giovedì 20 ottobre 2011

[RE] ''You're not your PJ''.

Also, when you protest, people should act in a professional manner. This means demonstrating peacefully, and dressing up like a professional.

Today, during my English class, Sutherland read a bunch of quotes taken from people blogs. The common topic was the occupation of Oakland and in general the protest that are going on all over the country/world. Some of them were sharable, some were not, but the thing that really captured my attention was what Alvin thinks about the demonstrations and the rules we should follow while we are occupying. ''...people should act in a professional manner [...] and dressing up like a professional''. Uh? Maybe it's because of my weak English that I am not interpretating Alvin's words well,but...

Is he saying that we should go dressed in suits to these demonstrations? Okay, I am sure that he didn't really think this, but what I understood is that he states that a ''proper'' clothing makes you respectable. Well, I strongly desagree. Ideas go beyond the clothes, so you could wear a PJ during a meeting in Wall Street (of course I am not suggesting it! Your reputation would be fucked), but your opinions could be still valuable. Then, what does it mean ''act in professional manners?''. The only thing you should do is respect the law and behave as the common sense request (hopefully people do it anyways and always!). So I still can't figure out what is he referring to.

I must say that I am quite confused by what Alvin wrote. I feel like he is ''discriminating'' and discrediting many people (maybe hippies? Have no clue) that don't follow the fashion blindly, so they are seen like weird. Maybe because they have dreads like Bob Marley. I would be more careful to say this kind of things. We should not base our opinions on CLOTHES.




mercoledì 19 ottobre 2011

[FREE] ''Wanted: Title''.

It's 07:19 pm and I am still studying math for tomorrow's test. Then I should study US History. Why? TEST. Meanwhile I should make also research for US Government and write at least one of my three weekly posts. This week I would rather skip them: first because I am so overwelmed for the homework, tests, and some personal issues that I have no inspiration. Then I must say that the last week essay was a bit difficult for me to do; infact, I have just got used to write 250/300 words with no big problems and then I jumped to one thousand words in few days (I also skipped the beewekly posts, which maybe could have helped me to get used to write more than 300 words).

I tried to look to other people's post and to the current events, but I my mind was off. I could not write anything except: ''blah blah blah'', which doesn't really express a real idea. So here I am. Talking about how I have no topic to deal with. I feel that these two weeks are going to kill me soon. Too many things going on, and my bad habit to wake up early like an old person doesn't help too. Damn, I can't even sleep during weekends! And if I wake up at 5:45, as many times happened, I can't fall asleep again. Can you imagine? I need a long nap. My mind needs it. My poor brain has a double work to do, translating for me everything I do in three languages.

I think that's enough for today. I don't even know how to name my post. I really need to turn off my brain for a while. Not today though.

venerdì 14 ottobre 2011

[ESSAY#1] ''Going for the look''

I found very interesting what Marshall Cohen states. Basically I distinguished three main ideas. First he's saying that as the retail environment is becoming more and more competitive, the methods of capturing consumers' awareness of a brand are changing and evolving. At the same time being able to find what he calls a ''walking billboard'', which means good looking people who would represent the brand, is becoming critical. And at the end he says that the young fashionable market, which is the most appealing , wants to see good looking people in the stores where they go shopping. That's the reason why the retailers defend their approach to hiring based on image as necessary.

In general I agree with Cohen's arguments, but still not with everything. I think he's right when he is saying that the retailers try to capture the consumers' attention in different ways and that they have mostly chosen to ''use'' the beauty as a factor of appeal. That's why I also agree when he is saying that people want to see mainly good looking gals in stores. But I believe that not everyone wants this. In fact adfirm this kind of thing, means that you think that the whole population is superficial and racist (if we can define this as racism against not very good-looking people). I don't think so, even if I believe that a huge percent of us values much more physical appearance rather then real skills.

Just think about how many magazines, TV shows and movies focus on what's the perfect beauty and how a ''normal'' person can reach it. The messages we receive from the media are ''be perfect, because if you are not, you're an outcast''. And I don't know why, but physical appearance has become synonym of perfection. From my personal experiences, I can say that in Italy you really feel this ''pressure'' and in these years more than before. If you turn on an Italian TV and you choose any kind of channel, you will see mainly naked (or almost) women, who exhibit their bodies in front of a huge audience. No doubt that these 20/25 year women look like models. What happens next? Teenagers (12/13/14 year old..and so on) assume that the goal of their lives is to look like them. But the biggest problem is not that they have this dream; the thing is that many of their parents encourage them in this sense. Everything is about beauty. It's necessary for a good and long relationships, to find a job (as in the case we are talking about), to feel totally part of the society.

So why shouldn't these companies have the approach of hiring mainly good-looking people? That's what the crowd wants. They just follow an already existing path. During one of my English class, we went through a couple of fashion advertisements. I must say that I found more impressive to look at the American Appereal's one more than the one from Abercrombie & Fitch. I would define A&F chaste and innocent compared to the obscene pictures of American Appeareal. Basically both advertisements focused on the beauty of the young models, but the use that they made of it was different. As I said, American Appearel thought that pornography would represent them better than anything else. But the common feature was there, clear and obvious: beauty. Different kinds of beauty: A&F prefers blond tall boys and girls,well fed and athletic. American Appearel prefers skinny bodies and an androgyne look. They choose this kind of models for their advertisements, so why they shouldn't apply the same idea when they hire people in the stores? They want people who would represent they brand in every way they can do it.

I don't know how many of us already realized that this is the way it works in many cases. Not always, but often. I would say that, according to a general opinion, physical appearence it's still not considered by a majority as the main requirement that a person needs to work in a store. I can understand that a model is ''required'' to be good-looking or at least not a ''common'' beauty. But since when clerks should look like Andy McDowell? I felt a bit shocked after I read the article about how A&F tries to hire customers. You could either have no experience in that kind of job or maybe you could be an irresponsible person, and they don't care (very much). You could have no qualifications at all, but they would offer you a job only because  you have a hot body and  nice face. So after that moment you can proudly shout that you are good-looking enough to sell A&F clothes. Great. Sad, I would also say.

The big idea I see behind all this issue is that, decade by decade, we don't consider anymore people as human beings, but as objects. Objects to sell, to buy, to use and abuse. Because it's all about money. You are useful if you make money. And beauty is a huge source of money. I have already talked about this kind of businesses. There's no morality in it. And the ''justification'' the retailers give for the way they act, only hide their big lack of morality. I am sure that if the trend was being ''ugly'', they would have hired only not good-looking people. And now we would about how is wrong discriminate good-looking guys.

As long as our culture is going to develop following this path, I think we will have a lot of time to discuss this kind of topic. As I already said, I basically agree with what Cohen is saying. He makes objective considerations. I just want to add a personal advice to what I wrote. We should focus more about the whole cultural/economic system that brought to these actions and behaviors, in this case the protagonists of the act were the retailers, rather than the specific topic, which is only a consequence of something bigger.

giovedì 13 ottobre 2011

[RE] Let's steal a friend!

I took this quote from Christian's blog :

 Friend Stealer- Someone who thinks it is okay to steal other peoples friends and think they're best friends after talking to the person 3 times.
This is for me more like a ''Friends week'' rather then ''Spirit week''. I feel in the mood to write about this topic. But I promise,this will be the last time for the next two weeks, because is becoming a bit boring and sentimental. Anyways, when I read Christian's statement about friend stealing, I saw like a red light blinking in my head: ''Oh-oh, something is wrong there''. ''Friend Stealer'' What? I didn't even know that a friend could be stolen! Can you imagine to steal and to hide a 7 feet tall guy in your wallet without being seen? First you should be a body builder to lift and carry him the time you need. Then you should own a really big wallet were to keep him. A bit challenging, uh?

But hold on a second... People are not objects! Enlightenment! In the whole post Christian seems to talk about friends like of his own property, which sounds to me like a weird thing to say. Why should not a person become friend of people that are already friends with someone she/he knows? (I know you got the point!) If both parts want it, it's perfect! There are no third people who can decide how the friendships among them should develop. Not at all. That's the reason why I disagree when Christian talks about friend stealing: first because people are not objects..and second, maybe a friend of yours just meets a person who she/he feels very close and she/he tries to know her/him better...and vice versa. Not a big deal. And if a person, who is supposed to be a friend of yours is ''stolen'' by someone you know very quickly... Well, MAYBE, I say MAYBE, she/he wasn't the really good friend you thought...

martedì 11 ottobre 2011

[FREE] Friends.

Sometimes I ask myself what does really mean being friends. I have my own idea of friendship, but I know I can't expect people, who are supposed to be my friends, to have the same.
Basically, I am the kind of person who makes clear the feelings towards her friends and who feels hurt anytime they seem to behave differently (even if they do it unconsciously).

Today's matter is this: I left in Italy some really good friends, and one of the thing I was worried about before I came was to ''loose'', during this year, what made these friendships special. People always change and while they are changing they become something new. So who knows what can happen in one year. We meet new people, we experience new things and we just go on with our life. Now I realized that there are people who care about me more than I thought, and it really makes me happy because I have the same feelings towards them. But, at the same time, I am really sorry and sad because of a person who I consider like a twin sister.

Since we met in high school, we have been always very close and from the beginning I felt there was a strong connection between us. But this impression changed few months later I told her about my intention to go abroad. Since then our relationship started to change: she was always avoiding me, giving me the impression that she wasn't approving my choice. Say that this happened like 2-3 times during the last high school year and we always ''fixed'' our friendship without thinking about what was wrong too much.

But now it's happening again. I don't know what to do. It hurts me so much. And what hurts me more is that I can't understand why she haven't understood it yet.

venerdì 7 ottobre 2011

[CE] Competitive businesses.

I was looking for some interesting news to write about in my CE post, and I saw this title: ''India creates world's cheapest computer''. Wow.

The computer costs $ 45 and it's targeted mostly at students. It has taken over 4 years to develop it, and now here it is. The main purpose of this project is to give the chance to the Indian students to have the access to technology. Indeed, in India the laptops range from anywhere between $ 400 and $ 1000, and the average income is much lower. 100,000 computers will be available in the next months in select universities. Of course experts say that the device has to be improved, so this will not be the ultimate version of it.

One of the first thing that I thought while I was only reading the title of the video, was that this is the kind of news that you expect to be related with India, or maybe China, countries which are about to lead the world's economy. In fact their only way to surpass countries like USA in this kind of businesses is to be very competitive. And they are really competitive. I don’t know if the laptop will be used out of India and if it will be even used by the students so much as the creators of the device hope, but I just can say that they already did a great job. Anyway, I hope that there will not be speculations on the project. In fact, in Italy I am used to hear about great news on benefits for people who live in conditions of precariousness, but, after a while and somehow, they turn to be either not completely true or someone (it depends on what we’re talking about) speculates on them. So those people, for who the advantage was meant for, in reality will never benefit from it. It’s sad, and that’s why I am so cynical about everything.

I am curious to hear more about the laptop in the next weeks/months, and hopefully something good.




venerdì 30 settembre 2011

[RE] Catherine and Heatcliff. And Math.


 So if Calc I finds tangents, derivatives, and integrals in two dimensions, my class Calc III finds tangents, derivatives, and integrals in three dimensions.[...] It is quite an interesting class.


When I read Christopher's post, I was like: please, tell me it is a joke. Very simply (not for me anyways), he explains the differences between Calculus III, which he is taking, and Calculus I. He tries, as much as he can, to summarize Calc III course to the audience, hopefully composed by people with a little knowledge of Algebra. So the question I was asking myself after I read the post was: ''why did you read the post?'' I mean, I don't belong to this group of people AT ALL.  My relationship with Math is complicated, like the one between Catherine and Heathcliff from ''Wuthering Heights''. 

But after a while, I figured out the answer: I felt Christopher's passion and energy towards what he was explaining and towards what he is studying. I think it's amazing. It's great when you study something that you like, because the probabilities that the results will be good or really really good are higher than usual. But it's not possible to be fond of everything, and in that case you have to try to do your best anyway, in order to do a decent job. Theoretically. BUT, I just can't do it when Math is involved. An obscure force possesses my mind during my fifth period, during which I have Pre-Calculus, and blows it off. Or maybe turns it off. Completely. 

What's the result of everything? I hate Math. Because I don't understand. I don't get the point. I can't appreciate the beauty of Math. Even if I would like to do it.

mercoledì 28 settembre 2011

[FREE] ''Italians do it better''. Not always.

Few days ago, during dinner, I had an interesting and challenging discussion with my host parents. It all started with the question: ''Would you eat pizza here, Luki?''. And my answer was like ''Damn, no! Only forced!''. Well, it wasn't the best answer that I could give and also, the way I said it was mean. So we started talking about food in general and we end up talking (implicitly) about my snob and a bit close-minded attitude towards American culture.

Only now, far away from Italy, I see how much my country's pride about his own culture affected me. And I am sure that also the way my parents raised me influenced me in this sense (mom and dad, don't worry, I love you anyways!). I could have explained more clearly my opinions and make them understand that I have a huge respect for American culture, and the fact that I decided to come here confirms it. American people's attitude towards life, the independence from a young age, the idealism and the multiculturalism brought me here.

So, dear host parents, I will try to improve in this sense. Not lose the opportunity to do or taste or see something new here, only because I think ''Italians do it better'' ( No misunderstandings, please. I am talking in general!). And about my, hopefully, not very frequent snob behavior: it doesn't sound new to me that someone makes me notice this aspect of my character. What can I say? Well, let me have this defect, because I could risk to become perfect! ahah

martedì 27 settembre 2011

[CE] Waiting for more rights...

Many activists applauded Saudi Arabia's recognition of women's political right to vote. Indeed, King Abdullah bin Abdulaziz al-Saud announced that women will be able to vote since the 2015 LOCAL elections. But they are still not allowed to drive and they are barred from travelling. And also, they are still not allowed to work or to have medical operations without a permission of a male relative (Can you imagine it?).

I am not sure if this decision could be considered as something that recognize more the dignity and the rights of Saudi women. I know that it a small step that many of them are appreciating,  but I am still a bit skeptical. To me, it's seems like the King has decided to give the right to vote only to avoid that women will be asking, in the next months or years, for more and more rights. You know, something like: ''Take this, but now shut up''.

I think everyone heard about the ''Arab Spring'', which is taking place in north Africa. Women are part of this revolution (someone tends to forget it). What if with this apparent wind of change is making them hope for a better condition in the society? We all know the answer to this question. Many of them are already using internet to spread their opinions all over the world and to condemn the strong chauvinism of their countries.

So, I don't know. I can't be completely glad of what happened there. I am sure only about one thing: I should thank God every day, because even if I am not living in the most perfect place in the world (Italy), as a woman (teenager, if you prefer!), I still can express freely my opinion and stand for my rights. We take it for guaranteed, but it’s not.

venerdì 23 settembre 2011

[RE] If you suck, improve yourself.

Our generation right now sucks.

This is the kind of sentence that I really don't understand. And I am a bit surprised that it was written by a girl of my age. I read Pamela's post entirely and it was a long complain about how our generation is miserable and lazy. My dad talks like this. But he is almost fifty and he is ''passè''. 

I am not saying that she didn't write sharable opinions, but I don't like making comparisons between this and that generation. You just can't do it, because every age is characterized by different trends and political, cultural or social movements. The political and social backgrounds are always different. So, in my opinion, making comparisons and saying ''that was better than this'' is wrong. And if you want to do it, you have to support your thesis with facts, not with empirical impressions.

Anyway, I think that in the past the people weren't always satysfied and glad of the period during which they were living and of their generation . Two simple examples? During 1910-20 occurred the War World I with its consequences. And a few years later occurred the War World II with its consequences. I am not sure if the majority of the people had good opinions of each other. Or if they were ''happy'' to live in that kind of world. And we could go either back or forth in the years, making thousands of examples. 

The last thing I would like to say is that instead of complaining only about how we suck or about how the others suck, we should try to improve ourselves. This would be the first step to become an appreciable generation.